I quit college and it made me successful.

Going to school was never my thing. Sitting through hours and hours of classes that did not resonate with me was awful. The idea of doing the same thing and paying for it was worse. In the '90s, college was expected. It was ingrained that you would never get a successful job if you didn't have a college degree.

Reluctantly, I went for a few years. I started at a community college and transferred to a University. I was holding down three jobs during this time as well.

The struggle was real. My mom also took my vehicle because I couldn't afford the car payments while I was trying to work and go to school. Nice, right? Yeah, I know. Figuring out how to pay my bills and get to work/school was very difficult for my 19-year-old self. But, as with all life experiences, it shapes who you become.

What did happen at that time was I realized school just wasn't for me. I dug deep, found the confidence inside myself, and walked away. It was the more arduous path, but it shaped who I am today. It taught me grit and resilience.

Since the day I decided to quit- I've been constantly asked, where did you go to school? This is a common question in just about every personal or professional situation. I have proudly answered- I didn't finish college. Work ethic isn't something you learn in school.

Not having a degree has never held me back in my career. It has never stopped my success. The chip on my shoulder due to not finishing school has driven me further.

It has made me work harder and it certainly isn't the easiest path.

In my opinion, if you are going to be a doctor or in a profession where you require specific training- school is appropriate. But, if, like me, you are going to be in sales- does that degree help you, or does it simply open doors of opportunity?

I don't know the correct answer- but I do know this- it isn't for everyone. Some of the most successful people have not finished school. The likes of Steve Jobs, Richard Branson, and Ted Turner (https://financebuzz.com/millionaires-without-a-college-degree) have all done well, executing their vision without a formal education.

I think the tides are changing, and there is a focus now on trade schools- and this is a good thing!

Hiring managers- look for grit, work ethic, and a desire to be successful, and you will find the right candidate.

My kids are welcome to go to college or not. Either way, I've always told them their success in life lies within themselves.